Herf (Cigar Gathering)
A herf is an informal gathering of cigar smokers who come together to enjoy cigars, share experiences, and bond over their shared passion for the leaf. Herfs can range from casual backyard smokes among friends to large, organized events hosted by cigar lounges, clubs, or online communities.
While the origin of the term “herf” is debated, it has become a staple of modern cigar culture—representing the social, inclusive spirit that defines the community.
What Is a Herf?
At its core, a herf is a social smoking session. There’s no rigid structure or requirement—it can happen:
- At a cigar lounge
- In a private home or backyard
- During a cigar festival or industry event
- Over Zoom or livestream (in the age of virtual herfs)
Food, drinks, music, and cigar swaps are often part of the experience, but the focus remains on conversation and camaraderie.
Origins of the Term "Herf"
The term “herf” is believed to have originated in the 1990s on online cigar forums like alt.smokers.cigars (Usenet). Users began using the term jokingly to describe their smoking get-togethers, and the word stuck—eventually spreading into mainstream cigar culture.
“Nobody can fully agree on where the word came from, but everyone agrees: a herf is where cigars and friendships are both lit.”
— Cigar Weekly – History of the Herf
What Happens at a Herf?
- Smoking premium cigars (BYOC or shared from hosts)
- Trading cigars from different countries or brands
- Pairing cigars with whiskey, rum, coffee, or food
- Discussing blends, construction, aging, and technique
- Networking or relaxing with fellow enthusiasts
- Occasional raffles, giveaways, or guest appearances
Different Types of Herfs
| Type | Description |
| Backyard Herf | Casual, private gathering of cigar-loving friends |
| Retail Lounge Herf | Hosted at a local shop or cigar lounge |
| Virtual Herf | Held online via video chat platforms |
| Mega-Herf / Event | Larger, sometimes ticketed events with sponsors |
Herf Etiquette
- Bring your own cigars, and extras to share if possible
- Don’t pressure others to trade or smoke what you brought
- Be inclusive and respectful—herfs welcome all levels of smokers
- Clean up your wrappers, ash, and drinks when finished
- Ask before lighting up anything strong or aromatic in group settings
Why Herfs Matter in Cigar Culture
Herfs foster a sense of community and knowledge-sharing that’s hard to find elsewhere. Whether you’re brand new to cigars or a long-time smoker, participating in a herf opens the door to:
- New blends and recommendations
- Relationships with fellow enthusiasts
- Industry connections or local lounge invites
- Learning from more experienced smokers
- A reminder that cigars are best enjoyed together
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Summary
A herf is where cigars meet connection. Whether you’re gathering with close friends or joining a national event, herfs are an essential expression of cigar culture—centered on friendship, discovery, and the joy of sharing a great smoke.